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Thursday, December 1, 2011

A Mother's Christmas Story

Much like my mother, I love to write.

And for a few years now, she's been sending me her stories in the mail.  The one below is the first I ever received.

If you have a few minutes, read my mother's holiday story, "My Favorite Day of the Year."  It made me cry!

Oh, and did I tell you she's not sick, my mother?  She was thankfully diagnosed last week with a treatable condition called Diverticulitis.

Can you say, joy to the world?  What a relief!

Now, here's her story:




“My Favorite Day of the Year”

Another long and humid summer is now lost into the faded background of time, and what was once an exquisite blue shaded canopy is now occupied with an assortment of puffy licorice clouds that adorn the sky above. The colorful leaves of autumn have fallen from their mother branches, icing the ground with a kaleidoscope of brilliant shades of red, orange, and yellow, and leaving behind the darkened shadows of stick trees, and the death of yet another season. The echoes of neighborhood children roll triumphantly down the street, playing melody to my ears, while the circular piles of leaves await burial in big black bags. The determined November wind blows swiftly, howling a tune of death, and bringing with her the chill of December. My bones are now cold and shivering uncontrollably, I must rely on the warmth of my wool sweater to aid me, and with each exhale of breath, white clouds of froth come billowing forth, leaving crystals of ice upon my lips. “Oh the excitement that stirs within me,” bringing me closer to Christmas, my favorite day of the year.

College finals are lingering, the stress is mounting, my patience is dramatically shortened, and my nerves are shot, but in spite of all this overwhelming pressure, the spirit of Christmas is blooming gloriously within me, spawning the birth of excitement. The inviting scents of Christmas time surround my widened nostrils. “Yummy!” The aroma of warm apple cinnamon strudels and hot peppermint cocoa dances and swirls around gently in the air, leaving a tease of delight upon my tongue. Cling-Clang goes the bell, as the Salvation Army Santa Claus stands guardian to the doors, my hand reaches out with kindness as I hurry into the warm air inside. There are sales galore, and gifts to be carefully chosen. My mind is hit with consecutive waves of thoughts and ideas of how to make this Christmas more special than the year before. With so many things to do and prepare for, I can hardly wait to get started. “Yippee-Yahoo, I am counting down to Christmas day, my favorite day of the year.”

Most days of the year are ordinary and uneventful. Days tick away with the hand of a wall clock. School, studying, routine, and schedule play monotonous host to my time. Life passes quickly by, and the memories fall neatly into an organized stack where they lay motionless and gather dust until a time of recollection. However, “Christmas is a special day.” This is the one day a year when all four of my beautiful children scurry from all directions to gather around me to share the love of the newborn season. My halls are decked with Christmas cheer, my financial ship has sunk, the tree stands tall in liberty and all its glory, and the star above twinkles. The presents are wrapped with special care, shining colorful curly ribbons and perfect little bows, who are awaiting the hands of my children, who will have no mercy for their beauty.


At long last my favorite day is here. One by one my children greet me with a tender hug and joyful smile, my tears of love roll softly and quietly down my face, menopause has bitten. Nostalgia fills the air, leaving no room for intruders. They are eager to reminisce and tell their stories of the year past. “My children are so beautiful to me,” each one different and yet they are all the same, “angels,” little pieces of heaven fallen perfectly from above. Their innocence and eagerness for life intoxicates me. I stand amidst them, gazing into their chestnut eyes. There is a bond of love between us that will forever be unbroken. “My Darlings,” I say as my tone gains altitude. “Today we are blessed. We have all made it safely to another Christmas, and have been given this time to be together again. I confess to you all, I am guilty of loving each one of you. I cannot explain the size of my love, not in cups, quarts or liters, but each night when I lay my head upon my pillow, my prayers and love for you is exactly the same. A wish for happiness, love, and prosperity is guided toward you. Life is short, and at its best, is very difficult, and if for reasons unknown I should not make it safely to our next gathering, look back to this Christmas, and there you will see the size of your mother’s love, and how special you are to me.”

Two weeks have passed since Christmas. My house is haunted with the songs of my children’s voices and laughter. Happiness, comfort, and peace embrace me, as I hold closely my new Christmas memory. I walk briskly across the frozen brown grass, ever so steady, onward to my mail box. Tucked neatly inside is a small gray envelope with the words “I love you mom,” written boldly across the bottom. I saw not another step, and it was as if a string had lifted both ends of my lips, I was swept away in thought and smile, back to Christmas, my favorite day of the year.”

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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Wordless Wednesday: Gobble, Gobble, Gobble

I could gobble him up, my kid.  My quiet lil' turkey with a cleft chin...


Gobble...


Gobble...

Gobble... 

Happy Thanksgiving!  

Photos:  Abigail Marie
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Friday, November 11, 2011

One More Star, One More Stripe...

It's Veteran's Day, and I'm thinking about the countless mothers over time that have begrudgingly sent their children off to war.

Something I've learned since becoming pregnant and having a child, women are strong, but to what extent? 

I can't imagine letting him leave, my child?!

The worry.  The pain.  The pride.  The helplessness...

In reading my father's story, The Struggles of an Irish Family, I was amazed to learn that my Great-Grandmother Anna Colwell Mulligan suffered a most tragic war fate...  she had a nervous breakdown!

Anna Margaretta Colwell Mulligan, circa 1908

Here's her war story (told from my father's perspective, as told to him by his father, my late grandfather, William Joseph Mulligan):

The sixth of seven children, my father went to work when he was a young teenager.  From eight in the morning until three in the afternoon, he went to school.  From four until midnight, he worked for forty cents an hour at the Emsig Button Company placing button holes on navy uniforms.  

Shortly after graduating high school, the government drafted him in the Navy.  Upon completing boot camp in New Jersey, my father was assigned to the USS. FIREDRAKE, an ammunition ship.  The ship travelled to the Pacific, and was assigned to the seventh fleet with the USS. DETROIT as its flagship.  My father's ship saw action off the shores of the Marshall Islands, Gilbert Islands, Iwo Jima and Okinawa.

My father stayed with his ship until it was decommissioned on the Sabine River in Texas.  Three months later he was discharged from the US Navy.

From there, he returned to New York to find his neighborhood, the Gashouse District, destroyed.  In place of modest railroad flats, they were building larger apartments with showers and hot water, in a development which is now called Peter Cooper and Stuyvesant Town. 

My father was unaware that his home was condemned and his mother evicted!  He had written his mother, Anna, during the war, but mail service was unavailable to him while in the Pacific.  He learned through people still residing in the neighborhood that his family had moved to the Bronx.

He went to the Bronx, and discovered that his mother had had a nervous breakdown.  She couldn't take the stress what with four of her children in the war, and an eviction from her family home.  She worried about her boys and was most afraid that when her children finally returned, they would be unable to find her. 
My grandmother, Anna Colwell Mulligan, was committed to Creedmour State Hospital on Hillside Avenue in Queens.  She spent the rest of her life there, and died twenty-four years to the day of her admittance.

In resting my mind for just a moment, I'm filled with respect and gratitude on so many levels.  What strength!

Thank you, Veterans!  And mothers, too!


The Strong Women I Never Knew:


My great-great-grandmother


Jane Geheran Colwell, circa 1912


These final shots are of my great-grandmother and her sisters


l-r:  Jeanette Colwell, Anna Mulligan, Ethel Cunningham, Mary Kerrigan
May 16, 1939


l-r:  Mary Kerrigan, Anna Mulligan and Ethel Cunningham
May 16, 1939



l-r:  Mary Kerrigan (seated), Ethel Cunningham, Anna Mulligan, Jeanette Colwell
Summer, 1966


The Flagmaker, 1775 (From "Songs For A New World")


When the man's in battle
And the baby's rattle
Only makes you more depressed
The wise woman does what she knows
If it's fighting, she fights
If it's sewing, she sews
When the tension inside
Overflows and goes too far

One more star, one more stripe
To escape your lonely bed
One more star, one more stripe
Join the blue, the white and red
One more star, one more stripe
As you pray your child's not dead

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The Ship was Quiet

Seeing as it's Veteran's Day, I'd like to share a personal statement my grandfather made about the last days of World War II.


I'd also like to extend my sincere gratitude to all those many courageous individuals that have served, and do serve our country! 

FYI:  This quote comes from a story my father wrote twenty plus years ago -- The Struggles of an Irish Family.  By some miracle, I've managed to keep it safely tucked away over these last few decades. 
 
My late grandfather, US Navy Signalman 3rd Class William Joseph Mulligan, recalled to my father...

"When the war was declared over, my ship laid anchor off Leyte Gulf in the Phillipines.  We had resupplied with ammunition to go to Japan.  I was on the bridge, and a lookout yelled "kamikaze!"  I was praying!  I thought the war over, and I would be going home, but this damn plane kept coming closer to the ship.  The guns were firing, but it kept coming closer.  I was crying, praying for God to help us.  I remember saying, "The war is over.  Not now!"  I closed my eyes out of fear.  Then there was a loud explosion.  I thought we had been hit, and with all the ammunition on board the ship; we would be blown to heaven.  I opened my eyes, and the plane had been shot down some fifty feet away.  We were safe.  The ship was very quiet that night, and I thanked God for his help that day." 

Many thanks to all that so willingly sacrifice in the name of freedom!

Thanks, Grandpa!  And thanks, Dad!


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Thursday, July 7, 2011

National Chocolate Day!

Did you know it's National Chocolate Day?  Who knew?!

To top it off, did you know that cocoa is technically considered a vegetable?  Wowza!

Thankfully, my kid loves his veggies!



Thanks for informing me, Christina!  Now, check out her blog [here] for some sinful chocolate deals...

The Blog Entourage 

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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

I ♥ Tiny Prints!

I've said it both here and here, I love Tiny Prints!  For example, check out a few of the cards I created for Father's Day:




Here's the best part though, for five cards (with postage and shipping included), I only paid $7.43!  You can't beat that!

To enjoy similar discounts, create a Tiny Prints account here, then wait until a week or so before any large holiday.  At that time, you should receive an email with relevant holiday promotional codes. 

Not to mention, register today, and you'll get 15% off your first order.

For the quality and price, Tiny Prints' products are superior!  I love 'em, and I'm not being paid to write this.  I'm just sayin'...



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Friday, June 17, 2011

Happy Father's Day!


Happy Father's Day!  I hope everyone has a nice weekend with their loved ones!  Speaking for myself, I'm so thankful for my father, Brendan, my husband, Mark, and my father-in-law, Tony. 

I've said it before, but I'm one lucky lady! 

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Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Wordless Wednesday. v5

In my life, I've loved two rabbits...

Rabbity ca. 1984

Bugs ca. 2009

Happy Easter 2011! 

Wordish Wednesday

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Thursday, March 17, 2011

Not a Blarney Stone, or Shamrock Unturned.

Being the good ole Irish-American girl that I am, and now having a wee one of me own, I feel obliged to share a little about past experiences.  In reference to my previous blatherings about how I wish to tell a story, and to pass on a definitive "something" that Aksel can take pride in, an anecdote of our ancestral homeland...


Besides, what better day than this very one?  Em, it is Saint Patrick's Day.  Hullo?! 

First of all, I love to travel!  When I was eligible at eighteen, I applied for a passport.  And, with my blue book in hand, I was off and running, actively seeking to behold the wonders of this wide world. 

As a side note, I've barely left my home, since the age of twelve, without a spiral-bound book, a black felt-tip pen, or two, and liquid paper.  So, in traveling, not only was it crucial that I SEE the world, but it was, for me, a requirement that I also write about it.  It was my personal goal to form knowledgeable, first-hand opinions about differing cultures.  Twas my objective, if ye will, to question people, and myself for that matter, thoroughly and often.  I sought to listen as graciously as I knew how, which I might mention at the time, was not saying very much. 

Basically speaking, I didn't want to leave a Blarney Stone, or a shamROCK unturned!

So, when it came time to navigate my travels, it was totally necessary I visit Ireland.  It was for me, a Mulligan, a sort of sacred journey, my very own rite of Irish passage. 

I attempt now, with my honest-born gift of gab, and my slew of dusty journals to recount my most special Celtic memory.

Proudly Irish, I'll always be a Mulligan!

I was twenty-one when I first visited Ireland.  A junior in college, and not a smidge scared, I packed my bag and left for the green isle.  On my flight's descent into Dublin, I felt overcome with emotion.  Staring out my tiny window, I felt strangely prepared.  Like I was there to solve some familial mystery, and I'd studied my evidence the night before.  I had, in fact, just received a lengthy email from my father, tracing our genealogical roots, which had been cleverly prepared by my priest-for-a-cousin, Kenny (aka. Abbott Matthew Leavy).  There were countless cousins, aunts, and uncles, who were born in such & such county, and had X amount of children, with silly names like Cornelius... it went on and on.  Albeit, I came to Ireland out of curiosity, with just a sliver-of-a-plight to answer questions for myself, about my past.

Growing up in a small southern town, with a tangled mass of dark curls, and an unforgiving name like Gillian Eleanor Mulligan, I didn't exactly blend in!   I was tormented actually, and felt inferior for a great part of my childhood.  For quite some time, I resented my heritage.  Not because I wasn't proud to be of Irish descent per se, but because I was so physically different looking than my classmates.  People always asked what ethnicity I belonged to, and oftentimes it embarrassed me!  So, I came to see what the people of Ireland were like.  To observe how they looked, and to compare how I was or was not similar.  Did I, in fact, look like an Irish woman?

Well, I got my answer!  It came from a very wise man, seated at a very old bar, nursing a very large Guinness, in a very dark pub.

His name was Michael Jordan.  The place was Mulligans on Poolbeg Street.  The story goes something like this...


My first logical stop in Dublin was Mulligan's Pub, and I couldn't think of, or justify, a more fitting place to start!  I walked for a long, long time, down endless side streets, staring hopelessly at my pocket map to find Poolbeg Street.  After quite some time however, I arrived at my destination, weary and starved!

I opened the heavy door, peered in with curious eyes, and rolled my suitcase over the threshold to enter the establishment.  Upon doing so, the pub seemed to let out a startled gasp (for air). 

Moldy, stagnant, dark, and dank are just a few pleasant adjectives that come to mind.  Did I say awesome, too?

 _________________________________________________________


INT. MULLIGAN'S PUB (DUBLIN) - DAY

GILLIAN
(pitchy in tone)
Hello.  Do you serve lunch?

The two male patrons and barman, startled by the glare of the opening door, look up to observe the unusual visitor.

BARMAN
No, Miss.

GILLIAN
(excited)
I'm Gillian Mulligan... and I'm here... at Mulligan's in Dublin, Ireland!

Smiling broadly, she settles in, and jumps on a barstool.

GILLIAN
(continuing)
I'd like a half-pint of Guinness with a dash of black currant, please.  Could I also have a packet of Walker's crisps?  I'm famished!

Talking aloud, but not to anyone in particular, she exclaims!

GILLIAN
  I have to drink Guinness, even if I don't like it!  It would be blasphemous, to be a Mulligan, at Mulligan's in Ireland, and not drink one.  For the merit of this experience, I must!

Silent moments pass.  The elderly gentleman to her left, pushes his newspaper aside, takes a long look at the girl, and speaks.

MICHAEL JORDAN
(with an unphased air)
Well, ya don't really look very Irish, Miss Mulligan. 

Lifting his nearly empty pint glass to his mouth, he swallows the remaining dark stout.

MICHAEL JORDAN
Em, but then again, ya don't really look like you're not Irish either.

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I love this memory of Ireland!  I hope my wee little leprechaun makes the trek one day...

This entry is in honor of my Great-Uncle John, who sadly passed away last night.  Although we saw each other infrequently, I will miss him greatly!  An inspiring, motivated man, he loved to travel too...

A present from the barman at Mulligan's Pub on Poolbeg Street:


One of my FAVORITE things!

A Half-Pint and Guinness!  (Staged, of course!)

The River Liffey at Dusk.

A (Lil') Man's Best Friend.

Seeing as I'm of the following clans:  the Mulligans, the O'Briens, the Colwells, the O'Rourkes (you get the paddy point), it's only fitting I recommend (on this most sacred of Irish days) a GREEN product.

So, here it is...

Me wee lad, Aksel Kieran, loves his GREEN LeapFrog pooch, Scout.  And, I'm not exaggerating on Patrick's behalf, either!  Saint, that is.

Reminiscent of the 80's Teddy Ruxpin, this talking pup (he can learn your name) is my little man's best friend! 

And while I'm on the subject, he doesn't cost too much GREEN!

Happy St. Patrick's Day! 


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Monday, February 14, 2011

15 for the 14th.

What can I say about LOVE that hasn't already been said?  It's easy at times, hard at others, unrequited, unbelievable, underplayed...

If you're feeling the love, or not, this Valentine's Day, here are 15 of my favorite happily-sad films.  For your viewing pleasure, they are:

Alice Adams   Waterloo Bridge   A Summer Place

Roman Holiday (Special Collector's Edition)   The Apartment (Collector's Edition)   Splendor in the Grass

Wuthering Heights (Import, All Regions)   The Princess Bride (Special Edition)    Amelie

Love Story   Romeo & Juliet   An Officer and a Gentleman (Special Collector's Edition)

La Strada - Criterion Collection   Lady Jane   Breathless

Despite its fickle nature, I choose to love first, and live incidentally!


Mommas:  Kiss your baby-daddies!

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